Ebb and Flow of Relationships
I find myself in a familiar position. Their are things about my husband I wish I could change. Knowing what I know, I know that's not possible. It's up to me to change so I can see my relationship from another point of view. I love my husband, but their are times when I just want to strangle him. We seem to butt heads and not have an even ground to stand from. It's these times that I take a step back and look at myself. I inquire within and ask myself "how am I showing up for my relationship? How can I be a better partner?" I know during these times of struggle I want to make HIM the problem. But somewhere inside of me I know it's me. Maybe I'm hormonal, distant or otherwise not interested. Maybe he is too, but I recognize that I can not change him. I can only change myself and watch the situation change from that stand point. I think the hardest thing about relationsh...