You Statements
I have been in my current relationship for a long time. At first we were just student/teacher, but I was in relationship with him none the less. As we moved forward and began to get closer, I found myself expressing what I/we refer to as "you statements." Let me give you an example. My husband, loves to just leave, no kiss goodbye, no hey I'm running to the store, nothing. One minute he is here the next he is gone. To be perfectly honest, I have a very hard time accepting this trait about him. In fact, we have been at a parties together, fireworks, Christmas dinners, or the beach where he sees that I am having a good time and doesn't want to bother me. So, he just decides to leave and not tell me. After a while I look around for him and he is gone. The car is still there but no Victor. At first I run through my head some possibilities, "he could have gotten another ride home, he could be walking, called a cab" etc. ...