The Sexual Arts

Sex is a curious thing to me. It's like eating, we all do it. Yet, most of us don't talk about it. We do not express our sexual challenges with our relationships, we remain silent. Why is it that we all have sex and yet so few us us really explore the possibility of what sex could hold for us? Why are we not encouraged to explore the possibilities of what a sacred union could be for us? They say the ancients used sexuality as a way of connecting to God. That they actually promoted using sexuality with their partners as a way to elevate themselves to a higher plane, heal themselves and those around them. Why this is such a far out thought in our culture? Sex is everywhere, the media, movies, TV, magazines and yet we are never taught the secrets of our own bodies and how to connect deeply and profoundly with another. We go out and get into relationship and have no skill set from which to learn. As we go ...